70 Best Sex Toys of 2023: The Best Sex Toys for Absolutely Everyone

Pros: Pleasurably textured interior; translucent casing for a better view; open-ended design makes it easier to clean the toy between uses and to combine it with oral sex, handjobs, etc.; more compact and travel-friendly than regular-size Fleshlights; inexpensive
Cons: Porous material isn’t as durable/long-lasting as silicone

Best Vibrating Masturbator: Hot Octopuss Pulse Solo

This incredibly rumbly vibrator is designed to wrap around your shaft and stimulate your sensitive frenulum, whether you’re stroking it up and down or just holding it on your sweet spot. Unlike most penis toys, this one works well even when you’re not fully hard yet.

Pros: Unique oscillations can feel “rumblier” and deeper than standard vibrations; can be used with or without an erection; waterproof; easy to clean
Cons: Not as easily incorporated into partnered sex as some other strokers

Best Anal Beads: CalExotics Silicone Booty Beads

These anal beads hold their shape better than a standard set, so they’re easy to guide in even if you’ve never tried beads before. That “popping” sensation as each bead moves in and out of you can make orgasms surprisingly intense!

Pros: Beads gradually escalate in size, helping you work up to larger penetration comfortably; ring-shaped base makes removal quick and easy
Cons: Doesn’t vibrate or do anything fancy; can’t be used with silicone-based lubes

Best Affordable Masturbation Toy: Tenga Egg

Is the Tenga Egg masturbator going to change your sex life? No. Will you use it to masturbate every single time? Absolutely not. But for less than seven dollars a egg, this super-stretchable elastomer sleeve can become one of many tools in your jerk box to switch things up when the old-fashion way starts growing stale.

Pros: Very affordable for a stroker; great variety of internal textures available; soft, squishy material; comes with its own lube
Cons: Disposable (meant to be thrown away after one to three uses)

The Best Vibrator: Magic Wand Rechargeable

If you watch porn, you’ve probably seen a Magic Wand in action at some point. It’s the OG ultra-powerful vibrator, and it got even better when its maker introduced a cordless model a few years back. It may not be most discreet massager in the world, but that’s honestly a big part of its charm: There’s nothing subtle about this toy or the orgasms it doles out.

Pros: Strong, rumbly vibrations; four vibration speeds and four patterns; can be used while charging
Cons: Gets buzzier on higher speeds; gets loud on higher speeds; not waterproof

The Best Bullet Vibrator: We-Vibe Tango X

If good things come in small packages, this vibe is a prime example. Its tiny size means its big, rumbly vibrations come as a surprise the first time you flip it on. It’s waterproof, so it’s an ideal companion for bathtub masturbation or shower sex.

Pros: Strong and rumbly vibrations; eight different intensity levels; fits easily between bodies; waterproof; quiet; silicone grip for comfort and ease of use; travel lock function
Cons: May rattle against genital piercings if you have them

The Best Oral Sex Simulator: Womanizer Premium

Rather than vibrations, the Womanizer uses rhythmic pulses of air to create a clit sensation that’s somewhere between sucking and tapping. It sort of has to be experienced to be understood. This model has an “autopilot” mode that varies the sensation, which makes it feel even (more) like oral from a real live human (especially when generously lubed).

Pros: Powerful and unique pressure-wave sensations; quiet; waterproof; 14 intensity levels; long battery life; optional “autopilot mode” automatically changes the toy’s intensity level over time so you don’t have to; comes with two differently sized stimulation heads to choose from
Cons: May not fit especially small or large clits

The Best G-Spot Vibrator: Lelo Mona 2

This silicone vibrator is quite powerful, but what really distinguishes it is the shape, which is perfect for rubbing against the G-spot with or without vibrations.

Pros: Fantastic shape for G-spot stimulation; can also be used clitorally; strong and rumbly vibrations; six vibration settings; waterproof; quiet; travel lock function
Cons: Not anal-safe; can’t be used with silicone-based lubes

The Best Dual-Stimulation Vibrator: We-Vibe Nova 2

Dual-stimulation vibrators hit inside and outside at the same time—you might remember the classic Rabbit vibrator from Sex and the City. But these things are notoriously difficult to pick out, because the distance between the clit and the vaginal opening varies so much from person to person. But this one is practically universal: it uses a super-flexible arm to reach the clit as the user thrusts the toy in and out without losing contact.

Pros: Strong and rumbly vibrations; stimulates G-spot and clitoris simultaneously; flexible clitoral arm helps maintain contact with your clit when thrusting the toy; both components can be controlled separately; Bluetooth-controllable (including long-distance) via the We-Vibe app; quiet; waterproof; travel lock function
Cons: Not especially versatile (it’s hard to use either arm of the toy on its own)

The Best Solid G-Spot Toy: Njoy Pure Wand

This gorgeous solid stainless steel toy is ideal for applying firm pressure to the G-spot. Just maybe pack a waterproof poncho if your partner is a squirter.

Pros: Excellent curve for G-spot/P-spot stimulation; steel allows you to apply firm pressure; double-ended design gives you two size options to choose from; great for temperature play; extremely durable and long-lasting; comes in a gift-ready wooden box with pink satin lining
Cons: May be uncomfortably firm for some users; somewhat heavy (1.51 lbs)

The Best Hands-Free Vibrator: We-Vibe Sync

Many companies have done a version of We-Vibe’s signature C-shaped vibrator, but the original is still the best. Meant to be “worn” during intercourse, the We-Vibe stimulates both partners at once, for stronger (and possibly simultaneous) orgasms. This model has two hinges at its center, so you can adjust it to achieve the right fit.

Pros: Bluetooth-controllable; powerful vibrations; adjustable fit; stimulates clitoris and G-spot simultaneously; 10 different intensity levels; waterproof; quiet
Cons: Can’t easily use either arm of the toy on its own; hinges may snap if handled too aggressively

The Best Low-Profile Toy: We-Vibe Melt

It’s no secret that standard P-in-V sex doesn’t always give the clit the stimulation it needs, and a slim toy can be just the thing to get both parties over the line. This petite toy is one of those “sucking” toys that uses rhythmic pulses of air to create clitoral sensations that mimic great oral sex—and unlike many other toys with this toe-curling technology, the We-Vibe Melt is slim enough to slip between bodies easily.

Pros: Flexible nozzle for increased comfort; low-profile shape allows it to fit well between bodies during sex; 12 intensity levels; waterproof; quiet
Cons: May not fit all clit sizes

The Best Vibrating Cock Ring: Tenga SVR

It’s a bit like strapping a V-8 to your shaft: This deep, satisfying motor enhances sex for both parties when the vibrating silicone hits skin. Also handy? You could also slip your fingers through the loop and penetrate a partner while the vibrator stimulates the outside.

Pros: Can be used as a cock ring or as a handheld vibe; stretchy ring accommodates a range of penis sizes; powerful vibrations; five vibration strengths and two patterns; waterproof
Cons: Short battery life

The Best Couples Vibrator: Hot Octopuss Pulse III Duo

This vibrator curves around your shaft and stimulates all the most sensitive spots. Best of all, the other side also vibrates, so your partner can press themselves against it at the same time. If you’re a fan of slow dry-humping but would love if it were, well, less “dry,” try this one out.

Pros: Very powerful vibrations; can be used flaccid or erect; nine speeds and five vibration modes; vibrating underside for a partner to grind against; underside’s intensity can be controlled independently with the included remote; fits a wide range of penis sizes; quiet; waterproof
Cons: Short battery life

The Best Strap-On: Tantus Beginner’s Strap-On Kit

The power dynamics, the gender play, the potential for intense prostate orgasms? Pegging is fun. And if you’re curious, this kit will get you started: it comes with a harness, two differently-sized toys (including a starter-sized one for total newbies), and a small vibrator you can slip into the harness to make sure you both enjoy yourselves. Add lots and lots of water-based lube and you’re good to go!

Pros: Smooth dildos for comfortable anal entry; comes with two differently-sized dildos; harness is machine-washable; waterproof; harness can be adjusted to fit hips up to 60 inches around; dildos and vibrator can be swapped out for other ones from your collection as long as they fit
Cons: Weak and buzzy vibrations

The Best Finger Vibrator: Dame Fin Vibrator

Take simple fingering to the next level: Wrap it around your digits—now your fingers vibrate. Add a squirt of lube and get down to it.

Pros: Easy to hold onto, including during penetrative sex; tether is optional/removable; travel-friendly; quiet
Cons: Only three vibration intensities; not waterproof

The Best Prostate Massager: Lelo Hugo

The best massager on the market, bar none. It’s expensive, but if you plan on using it more than a few times, then there’s no reason not to splurge. The incredible precision of the vibrations separates Hugo from the pack. To control the speed and intensity, you simply tilt the circular remote. So if you tilt down and to the right, the vibrations will be stronger on the back right side.

Pros: Great shape for prostate stimulation; eight adjustable settings of powerfully rumbly vibration; two motors to stimulate both prostate and perineum at once; silky-smooth silicone; can be used with or without the included remote; waterproof
Cons: May be too large for some users; remote uses disposable batteries

The Best Inexpensive Prostate Massager: Aneros Helix Trident


Helix Trident prostate stimulator

Prostate massagers are pricey, which makes a certain amount of sense. (You don’t want to stick just anything up there.) The Helix Trident is on the cheaper side, as it goes. Unlike most other toys on the list, this one doesn’t vibrate, but it still works great, particularly if you’re completely new to anal play and prostate stimulation—the Helix is a great starter toy. If you determine you love the sensation of something inside you, then you can upgrade to a more expensive vibrating model.

Pros: Hands-free prostate stimulation; good size for beginners; also stimulates perineum; can be used with any kind of lube
Cons: No vibration; head may be too blunt for some beginners to insert comfortably

The Best Vibrating Prostate Massager: Lelo Loki Wave

If you’ve ever enjoyed the “scooping” or “come hither” motion of a partner’s fingers (or your own) on your prostate, you’d probably love this toy. In addition to vibrating, it “waves” up and down in a massaging motion, creating ultra-intense orgasms.

Pros: Two rumbly motors to pleasure both prostate and perineum simultaneously; up-and-down “waving” motion; waterproof; five wave settings and five vibration settings
Cons: Loud; waving motion is slow; may be too large for some users

The Best Luxury Prostate Massager: Njoy Pfun

Feel like spoiling yourself? It’s hard to beat stainless steel in terms of pure luxury and beauty. This non-vibrating plug presses firmly against your prostate every time you squeeze your muscles around it, making it a super pleasurable addition to intercourse or oral sex.

Pros: Pleasurable heaviness; good curve for prostate stimulation; beginner-friendly size; looped handle for easier insertion and removal; can be used with any kind of lube; good for temperature play; will last basically forever
Cons: Tends to slip out if worn long-term or while standing up

The Best Experts-Only Prostate Massager: Fun Factory Duke

Fun Factory

“Duke” vibrating prostate massager

The Duke isn’t messing around—it should only be used by anal pros. It goes much further inside your rectum than any other massager on this list: it has three separate components that stimulate various highly-sensitive erogenous zones. The first part extends far past your prostate, hitting the deep inner walls of your rectum. The second section directly nuzzles against your prostate, and the third and final section hugs your perineum to help keep the toy in place. Given how much area it covers, the Duke leads to incredibly powerful orgasms.

Pros: Stimulates both the prostate and the perineum; flexible for comfort; removable bullet vibrator can be used elsewhere; waterproof
Cons: Some users might find it too large or too curved for comfort; only two steady vibration speeds (and three patterns); may slip out during use

The Best XL Prostate Massager: Tantus P-Spot

The hefty size and deep curve of this silicone dildo helps it locate your prostate with ease, provided you can handle how big it is. It’s got a removable bullet vibrator in the base that makes it feel even better.

Pros: Great curve for prostate stimulation; satisfyingly girthy shaft; harness-compatible for strap-on sex; bullet vibrator is removable; waterproof; three vibration speeds
Cons: Weak vibrations; too large for some users; bullet vibrator uses disposable batteries

The Best Masturbation Sleeve on Amazon: Tenga Flip Zero

You hand is great, but there’s a way to take your masturbation to another level. An outer layer creates a tight seal while the ridged internal wall squeezes you from both sides. It works, and once you’re finished, it’s easy to clean and reuse.

Pros: Interior is pleasurably textured; can be flipped open for easier cleaning and drying; squeezable pressure pads create internal vacuum suction
Cons: Porous material has a shorter lifespan than silicone; often noisy during use; may not fit all penis sizes

The Best Cock Ring on Amazon: Lelo Tor II

The Lelo Tor II is the ultimate couples device. Cock rings restrict the flow of blood, increasing the intensity of orgasms and offering longer, harder erections—which your partner is absolutely going to like. But this model adds a raised vibrating head to give your partner the exact sensation they’re craving.

Pros: Strong, rumbly vibrations; 6 vibration modes; increases erection strength; stimulates both partners during penetrative sex; waterproof; travel lock function
Cons: May be uncomfortably tight on girthier penises

The Best Sucking Toy on Amazon: Satisfyer Pro 2

This toy uses air and suction to create unique sensations on the external clitoris—it feels a bit like oral sex. Put the nozzle over your partner’s clitoris and let the toy do the work. This slim design works great during penetration—it gives her the stimulation she’s craving without moving a vibrator around. (It also feels good on anyone’s nipples—try it!)

Pros: 11 pressure-wave intensities; soft silicone head for a better, more comfortable seal around the clitoris; waterproof; inexpensive for what it is
Cons: Won’t fit all clit sizes

The Best Anal Beads: Booty Bling Wearable Silicone Beads

Doc Johnson

Booty Bling Wearable Silicone Beads

Anal beads feel great on the way in and the way out. When inserted, this toy can hit the prostate while you mess around—either partnered or solo. It’ll just hang out and stay put. But the most fun happens upon removal. If you remove the plug slowly, and allow each bead to “pop,” it can massively intensify your climax.

Pros: Beads gradually increase in size for easier insertion; beginner-friendly diameter (three-quarters of an inch); comfortably flexible; fun-looking jewel at base
Cons: Doesn’t vibrate or do anything else fancy

The Best Vibrating Anal Beads: b-Vibe Triplet Vibrating Anal Beads


Triplet Vibrating Anal Beads

Anal beads are great, but add vibration and it’s like being rocketed to a different dimension. The Triplet beads come in graduated sizes: Start by inserting the smallest one, then work up to all three. When it feels right, use the remote to up the intensity of the vibration.

Pros: Beads taper in size for easier insertion; two powerful motors; six vibration levels and 15 vibration patterns; comfortably curved base; comes with a remote control; includes a travel case; travel lock function
Cons: Not waterproof; remote uses disposable batteries

The Best Advanced Anal Beads: nJoy Fun Wand

For an advanced user of anal beads, the nJoy Fun Wand is the upgrade you need. It’s made from stainless steel, so it works with ultra-slick silicone lube, and it’s heavy enough to use the power of gravity to put extra pressure on the prostate and the anal opening when the beads are removed. It isn’t exactly for beginners, but if this sounds about right, just take it slow and figure out what feels good. (Bonus: Stainless steel is extra easy to clean.)

Pros: Double-ended design for more sensation options; curved to hit the G-spot or prostate; great for temperature play; will last basically forever; comes in a gift-ready wooden storage box
Cons: Doesn’t vibrate or do anything else fancy; may be too small for some users’ preferences

The Best Rimming Simulator: b-Vibe Rimming Plug 2

Rimming can feel amazing regardless of your gender or genitals. Everyone’s anus is a highly sensitive nerve-packed area that deserves some exploration. And what better way to do that than with the b-Vibe Rimming 2 butt plug? It has rotating beads at the base, for intense stimulation around your sensitive anal entrance. This toy will delight beginners who are new to butt stuff, but it’s powerful enough for seasoned pros too.

Pros: Unique rotating sensation is similar to getting rimmed; seven rotation settings and six vibration patterns; comes with a remote control that can change the toy’s settings from up to 30 feet away
Cons: May be too large for some users; no curve for prostate stimulation; not waterproof; remote uses disposable batteries

The Best Dual Stimulation Vibrator: Love Distance Range

The Love Distance Range is ideal for any partner with a vulva who enjoys internal and external stimulation at the same time. This waterproof app-controlled toy, made from body-safe silicone, gives you the ability to control it while you watch your partner enjoy from afar. And there are a lot of dials to turn: This toy has 20 different speed patterns.

Pros: Remotely controllable via the Love Distance app; powerful vibrations; 12 vibration speeds and 20 patterns; comes with a satin storage bag; waterproof
Cons: Minimal clitoral stimulation when worn vaginally

The Best Prostate Massager: We-Vibe Vector

Ignoring the prostate means missing out on a whole new way to orgasm—just saying. And the Vector is the best remote-control prostate massager on the market. It offers an adjustable bulb for the perfect fit, and has a rumbly, slowly intense effect on your most sensitive parts. Connect it to the We-Connect app to customize the patterns of vibration, and it’s the perfect thing to change up the game when sharing the old rub and tug starts to get old during phone sex.

Pros: Good shape and size for anal beginners; 10+ vibration modes; adjustable angle; stimulates both the prostate and the perineum; Bluetooth-controllable for short-distance or long-distance play; waterproof
Cons: Bluetooth connectivity can be unreliable

The Best Couples Vibrator: We-Vibe Sync

The We-Vibe Sync is designed to provide clitoral stimulation during penetration by hooking over the clitoris and into the vagina. It’s also remote controlled. That means there’s a few things you can do here: It makes for a fantastic vibrator for solo play. Since it’s a couple’s toy, you can use it together once you reunite (or, you know, meet up for the first time). And if you’re in some sort of throuple or your sex life is otherwise extra interesting, you can control it as two other people get down to it.

Pros: Bluetooth-controllable; powerful vibrations; adjustable fit; stimulates clitoris and G-spot simultaneously; 10 different intensity levels; waterproof; quiet
Cons: Can’t easily use either arm of the toy on its own

The Best Stroker: Kiiroo Titan

This stroking toy uses a super realistic-feeling sleeve surrounded by nine bullet vibrators to get the job done—and trust us, it does. And it’s networked: You can connect the device to nearly any adult video platform for solo play or connect directly to your partner’s Kiiroo vibrator (any model will work) and allow the toys to “talk to each other.” It’s a revolution in remote sex.

Pros: Nine vibration motors; can be wirelessly synced to porn (including interactive and VR porn) or to a partner’s device
Cons: Porous sleeve material isn’t as durable/long-lasting as silicone

The Best Vibrating Cock Ring: We-Vibe Pivot

Adding vibration to penetrative sex can make it feel awesome for both partners, and this is the best product for the job. It’s got deep, rumbly vibrations and is made of silky-smooth silicone for a luxurious feel.

Pros: Strong, rumbly vibrations; three vibration speeds and eight patterns; Bluetooth-controllable via the We-Vibe app; quiet; waterproof
Cons: May be too tight for girthier penises

The Best Basic Cock Ring: Blush Novelties Performance GoPro Silicone Cock Ring

Blush Novelties

Performance GoPro Silicone Cock Ring

Even the most basic of cock rings, like this one, can do a lot: they constrict the blood flow at the base of your dick to enable stronger, longer-lasting erections, and they increase your sensitivity and pleasure. This is an ideal first cock ring to try out if you’re curious about ’em.

Pros: Helps with erection strength and stamina; flat design helps it stay put; stretchy to fit a broad range of penis sizes; very affordable
Cons: No bells and whistles

The Best Cock Ring Set: Lovehoney Get Hard Extra Thick Silicone Cock Ring Set


Get Hard Extra Thick Silicone Cock Ring Set

This set contains multiple different-sized cock rings, so you can experiment and find the one(s) you like best. Try using one around just your shaft, just your balls, or both at the same time to see which you prefer.

Pros: Helps with erection strength and stamina; set comes with three different-sized rings to experiment with; very affordable
Cons: Rounded shape means the rings may roll up or down your shaft rather than staying put; no bells and whistles

The Best Cock Ring for Perineum Pleasure: Hot Octopuss Atom Plus

There are two motors in this silicone cock ring, so it stimulates your partner while also vibrating your nerve-packed perineum. Even using it solo feels good, but using it with someone else can be explosive.

Pros: Strong, rumbly vibrations; five speeds and five vibration modes; two motors for extra power; stimulate’s wearer’s perineum and their partner’s clitoris or perineum; waterproof
Cons: Short battery life; may be too tight for girthier penises

The Best Bluetooth-Controllable Cock Ring: Lovense Diamo

You can create your own custom vibration modes for this toy using Lovense’s app, and can even have a partner control the toy from afar. Play around with its versatile shape to figure out where its vibrating part feels best for you.

Pros: Strong, rumbly vibrations; attached stimulator curves to hit wearer’s balls or perineum, or their partner’s clitoris or perineum; Bluetooth-controllable via the Lovense app; can be used long-distance; waterproof; long battery life
Cons: May not be large/stretchy enough to fit girthier penises\

The Best Super-Stimulating Stroker: Fleshlight Pink Lady

Designed to help you learn to last longer, this highly textured stroker can feel overstimulating at first—but the more you practice edging with it, the better you’ll be able to control yourself when boning an actual person.

Pros: Highly stimulating internal texture; soft and squishy enough to accommodate a variety of penis sizes; can dissemble it and turn it inside out for easier cleaning
Cons: Porous material means it will need to be replaced sooner than a silicone toy; can be noisy

The Best High-Tech Stroker: Lelo F1S V2

In addition to powerful vibrations and a flexible textured sleeve, this stroker contains 10 sensors that help you track metrics like your thrusting speed and stamina in the accompanying app. It’s like a love letter to horny geeks everywhere.

Pros: Two powerful motors for satisfying vibrations; stimulates the frenulum well; comfortably flexible internal sleeve; sensors to track your speed and stamina via Lelo’s app; quiet; waterproof
Cons: App is poorly designed/hard to use; may not fit all penis sizes

The Best Long-Distance Stroker: Lovense Max 2

This stroker offers vibrations as well as rhythmic “contractions” that feel a lot like when a partner’s pelvic muscles squeeze tight around you during sex. A partner can take control using the Lovense app, making this a solid choice for long-distance sweethearts.

Pros: Offers both vibration and contractions/squeezing; multiple settings for each function; sleeve can be removed for easier cleaning; adjustable air vent so you can control the amount of suction; syncs with some other Lovense toys for a “teledildonic” experience; water-resistant; long battery life
Cons: Noisy; large and bulky

The Best See-Through Stroker: Fleshlight Go Torque

With a translucent stroker like this, the exhibitionistic and voyeuristic possibilities are endless. Whether you want to snap a hot selfie for a long-distance partner or put on a sexy show for them in person, this toy functions as–quite literally—a window into your arousal.

Pros: Pleasurably textured interior; translucent for a better view; hard plastic case for travel and storage; fits a wide range of penises
Cons: Porous material isn’t as durable/long-lasting as silicone; large and not very discreet; cleaning can be annoying; can be loud during use

The Most Unique Stroker: Arcwave Ion

The same “pressure-wave” technology found in clit toys like the Womanizer is also used in this stroker, to stimulate the most sensitive area of the penis–the frenulum—in a totally unique way. It’s not everyone’s cup of tea, but there’s really nothing like it.

Pros: Offers unique “pressure-wave” sensation; easy to dissemble for cleaning; storage base doubles as a drying rack
Cons: Not everyone likes the pressure-wave sensation; noisy; expensive; won’t work for penises shorter than 3.5 inches; needs to be held still (rather than stroked up and down) to work best

The Best Beginner-Friendly Cuffs: Unbound Cuffies

Curious about bondage but not sure where to start? Restraint doesn’t get much simpler than these silicone cuffs. Just slip them on and you’re ready for some kinky fun.

Pros: Easier/faster to put on than most cuffs; won’t cut off your circulation like metal cuffs; stretchy and therefore easier to remove and put on
Cons: Not as secure as traditional cuffs; may not fit all wrist sizes (two-inch internal diameter)

The Best Full-Body Bondage Set: Sportsheets Under-the-Bed Restraints System


Under-the-bed restraints system

This cult-fave product turns your bed into a bondage station. Slip the long straps under your mattress (it’s easier than it sounds) and you’ll have two wrist cuffs and two ankle cuffs hanging off the edges of your bed, ready to be used whenever you want. It’s like bondage on easy mode.

Pros: Relatively quick setup; fits any mattress size; makes bondage easy and convenient; can be tucked away under mattress when not in use; included Velcro cuffs can be swapped out for different ones; fits a wide range of wrist sizes
Cons: May be difficult to set up if your bed is against the wall and/or if you’re not physically strong enough to lift your mattress slightly; included cuffs are not the best quality

The Best Blindfold: Nidra Deep Rest

While not made for kinky purposes, this sleep mask makes an excellent blindfold. It blocks out light like no other, and can be adjusted to fit multiple head sizes. And if your partner wears eye makeup, they can rest at ease knowing the convex “eye cups” of this mask won’t mess up their look.

Source link

About The Author

Scroll to Top